By listening to your Higher self as you go about your daily life, you can learn to fine tune your discrimination in energy sensing. You can dialogue with a Pendulum made with crystal or any other material.
Before using the pendulum, carry the crystal with you to attune it to your energy.
It is very important to be relaxed and centered when using the pendulum. Take a few breaths and visualise the place where you feel totally at peace. Please dont rush this relaxation. If you are not relaxed , you will not get the clear answers. And in beginning it is easy to become so worried about whether or not the pendulum will work and all that will block the movement of the pendulum with your tention.
Use :
when you are ready, ask the pendulum to show the movement "yes" and the movement for "no".
For further clarity try asking the pendulum about the answer you already know.. and see which way the pendulum moves.. that would be probably yes for you.
If this method doesnot work for you, dont get nervous or distracted as that will break your concentration . Relax, take few more breaths.. and move the pendulum in your "Yes" direction, visualising "YES" in bold letters. Remember when you are working with the pendulum, do not have your arms or legs crossed or touching each other.
If your pendulum doesn't move very well for you, try opening and closing your hands a few times to activate the hand energy centres (The Hand Chakras). Also empty your mind of doubts .It is important to have a clear mind so the answer doesn't get all muddled up by your own thoughts.
"Clear" the energy from pendulum after each question by simply lowering the tip for a moment to your hand or other surface. This signals that your question has been answered and you are ready for the next question.
For coosing the pendulums see my Pendulums Section